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Beauty in Brokenness

Editorial by Anne Faidley

Imagine a gorgeous vase. Fragile. Rare. Costly. Perhaps a gift from a dear friend. It’s the kind of treasure you’d place a huge bouquet of roses in and display on your mantle to admire. But then one day, the vase is shattered into a million pieces. Knocked to the ground by a careless hand or a gust of wind from the open window. The beautiful roses lay strewn in a puddle of water, their tender petals bruised and crushed. And all around is broken glass.

The situation seems, well, hopeless. Who could retrieve all the pieces and repair the broken vase? Who could restore the wet, battered flowers to their former beauty?  You know, sometimes our lives are like that. We have everything all planned out. Our life seems predictable and in order. Comfortable.

Everything is going just fine, until…suddenly, something happens—an illness, a tragic accident, a family breakup. The “vase” of our life is shattered, the beautiful “flowers” of our accomplishments and reputation crushed. And we are left to pick up the pieces. What are we to do?

We view our shattered dreams through teary eyes, our strength and faith waning. In times like this, Jesus is calling us to cling to Him. On our knees before our Lord…pouring out our hearts to the One who always listens…totally dependent on Him who is our Refuge and Strength. This is right where Jesus wants us.

He breaks down our plans not to destroy us. But to open our eyes to what really matters—knowing and loving Him. Not to dishearten us. But to bring us to the point of finding all our hope and joy and security in Christ. Not to ruin us. But to refine us into His likeness. To make us a pure and spotless bride for Him. “But when He has tested me, I will come forth as gold.”1

God uses difficulties to smash down our idols—things that stand between Him and us. Even the respectable idols, like family and reputation and what we’ve “done for God.” We must come to the point of saying with Paul, “I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of know Christ Jesus my Lord, for who sake I have lost all things.”2

Our Redeemer reaches down and picks up the pieces—the remnants of our self-centered life. And He fashions them into something more wonderful that we can possibly imagine…a surrendered heart, a life lived for His glory alone. “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, You will not despise.”3 We are broken to be made whole…complete in Christ. Herein lies true inner beauty.

Notes: 1Job 23:10 . 2Phil. 3. 3Ps. 51:17. All references niv.


Scaling the Heights

Editorial by Laura Faidley

At precisely 5:00 am , the annoying jingle of an alarm clock jolted me awake. Do I really want to do this? was my first thought. It would be so much easier just to go back to sleep! But, no. If I don’t, I know I’m going to regret it. Jumping up, I hurriedly fumbled in the dark for my clothes.

While attending The Summit Worldview Leadership Camp in Colorado this summer, I had the opportunity to climb Pikes Peak (14, 110 feet altitude). Ever the adventurous one, I just had to do it. Though I had little hope of completing the fourteen mile trek, I decided to try. Grabbing my backpack, I hurried to the cafeteria for a quick bowl of cereal. After filling up my water bottle, I gathered in the lobby with the other students for instructions before setting out. Our leader laid out four guidelines: Don’t hike by yourself. Drink water and breathe deeply. Keep looking ahead. Press on—don’t stop!

In the chilly predawn, we set out. I was out of breath before we even reached the trailhead and quickly fell towards the back of our large group. Then the sign: “ Pikes Peak trail—14 miles to the summit.” And the switchbacks began. Back and forth. Stop and get a big gulp of water. Back and forth. Another drink. Plodding up the trail, we speechlessly took in the beautiful sunrise over the mountains. After three or four miles, the path leveled out, and for the first time, I saw the peak itself. Far off in the distance, rising majestically above the surrounding evergreen-covered mountains. Grey rock. Just rock—no trees. That can’t be it. Yes, it is! How am I ever going to make it?!

A glance at my watch revealed that time was quickly running out. In order to avoid afternoon thunderstorms on the mountain, we were required to make it halfway by 9:10 am , or else turn back. A few handfuls of trailmix gave me new energy, and I pressed on ahead…with a goal. At 9:15 am , I stumbled into Barr Camp, the halfway point. After buying more bottled water, I sat down to rest and eat.

The views were awesome as we gazed into the valley below. Revived and encouraged, I thought, I can do this! Only 6.8 miles to go. Two miles later, though, I thought differently. As we approached the timberline, lungs burning and muscles screaming, I barely managed to put one foot in front of the other. Looking around, I realized that Katie and Phalin, my hiking companions, were in a similar state. Then, these words from our leader, “You’re doing great, girls. Keep going!” “Hang in there, Laura; we’re almost to the next milepost.” The next milepost.

Trudging along, I prayed for strength and scanned ahead for the milepost, where we would rest. At last, we reached it, collapsing on the boulders and thirstily gulping down our water. All too soon it was, “Alright, girls, let’s go!” At first I resented our leader…what was she thinking? I needed to rest. But looking back now, without her prodding and encouragement, I would still be sitting on the side of that mountain—looking up, looking down, but sitting still.

Onward and upward we went, one step at a time. Now well above the timberline, we were surrounded by rock. Even the straggly trees had been left behind. Our leader pointed up ahead. “Look! There’s the summit. Not too much further.” Impossible! I thought. It looks like sheer rock from here. Tired and short of breath, I again heard her encouragement: “You’re doing great; keep going.” After an eternity, we reached the final switchbacks, dubbed the “golden stairway.” I heard cheers from the top. The final steps …then with aching muscles and empty water bottles, we arrived at the summit of Pike’s Peak —14,110 feet above sea level.

Oh, the joy. The accomplishment. The 360 degree breathtaking views for miles and miles. The snow flurries lazily filtering down. It was worth it. And the trail…a tiny ribbon winding down, down into oblivion. Oh, I could’ve stayed down in the valley—enjoying a leisurely breakfast after sleeping in. Certainly, it would’ve been more comfortable. But the view from the top was worth the climb.

 

    The Christian life like a journey…a journey to the heart of God. Many times trials and difficulties arise in our path like insurmountable mountains. Often, we get to the point where, either out of discouragement or sheer exhaustion, we can’t take one more step. This past year, I’ve had a challenging mountain to climb, and the very fiber of my being has been stretched. I never thought I could live through the separation of our family without falling apart. But amazingly, in all my struggles and pain, God has been with me. He gives me grace and strength when I would collapse on my own. The Lord has shown me how small my faith is and what an awesome God He is. You know, the advice given before hiking Pike’s Peak is also very applicable to climbing spiritual mountains.

 

Don’t hike by yourself

    We can’t make it on our own—only with God’s help. But God also uses brothers and sisters in Christ to encourage and build us up. They are visible expressions of God’s love—like Jesus’ hands and feet. True fellowship means we stop pretending we “have it all together.” Have you ever noticed we often greet each other with, “Hi, how are you?” And the response is nearly always the same: “fine.” Of course, we’re all “fine,” right?! The truth is, all of us have hidden hurts and sins we’re struggling to overcome. Openness and honesty are keys to true community and fellowship. This means being real and honest about our struggles. It means being there with a listening ear and a word of encouragement when a friend is low, and pointing them to Christ, who alone can meet our deepest needs.

Be a friend along the journey of this life—tangibly showing God’s love. Friends encourage, understand, and build each another up, just like my leader did. We need each other…none of us can travel this journey alone. We need to be honest with each other, even when it hurts. We need to pray for each other. Let’s not pretend; let’s be real. That we can actually be used by the God of the universe to make a difference in another’s life is truly amazing.

 

Drink lots of water and breathe deeply

Just as water and air are essential to life, so the Living Water—God Himself—is vital to our lives. And when we’re climbing those spiritual mountains, we need Him all the more! In the end, knowing Jesus in a personal, intimate way is all that really matters. Without my relationship with God, I would have fallen apart this summer. But, you know, the Lord gives strength and grace for one day at a time. Through Him, we can do the impossible. We all have crutches—things we hang on to for stability and security. But God desires us to be completely dependent on Him. One of the ways the Lord has worked in my life over these months is by knocking out all those supports, and bringing me to my knees. In that place, all you have is Christ alone. And He is more than enough.

Trials will come. Jesus’ truth brings not peace, but a sword—as some choose to follow Christ and others don’t.1 He promised that “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”2 That’s the big picture! “The one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world.”3 Knowing Christ is what matters for eternity—not religion, going to church, or doing good things. “I never knew you,” Jesus will say to many on Judgment Day, even those who did good works and seemed like moral people.

 

Keep looking up

The only things we can truly rest in are the goodness and sovereignty of our Lord. God orchestrates every detail in our lives—He’s got the script, the master plan—and no one can thwart His will. All we see now is little pieces—the heartache, the broken lives, the pain. But one day, in eternity, we will look back on our life here on earth and thank Jesus for these trials. “Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.”4 Redemption and hope are at the very heart of the gospel. God not only forgives sins, He redeems them. God stares our evil in the face and flips it around for His purpose and our good. If you are surrendered to Jesus, your very worst experiences in life can be used by God in tremendous ways. Later in life, you will look back and say, “I don’t know where I’d be today without that happening.” The end will be better than the beginning!

Things are not at all what they seem. “For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.”5 It’s very easy to get bogged down in here and now, but we must remember to keep the big picture. The truth is that what we cannot see is the most real of all—the spiritual realm. Our physical bodies will decay and eventually the universe will be destroyed, but our souls will endure forever—in heaven or in hell.

Imagine a dot in space. Now imagine a line beginning at that dot, extending into infinity. Our life on earth is only that tiny dot. And eternity is that infinitely-long line. Our short life here on earth is preparing us for eternity. It is just the dress rehearsal. So we must keep an eternal perspective, setting our hearts and minds on things above. Worship helps us keep this focus—and I’m not just referring to Sunday morning church service. Worshipping God should be a continuous thing we do throughout each day. When, in the midst of our difficulties, we take our focus off our problems and instead remember who God is and what he has done, it revolutionizes our way of thinking. Our insurmountable mountains look more like molehills when we give them over to the control of our all-powerful, all-loving, all-wise God.

 

Press on—don’t stop.

Each of us has to come to the point of reckless obedience and dependence on Christ. Where He becomes our all in all, not just a part of our life. We must embrace Christ, no matter what the cost. Yes, people will hate you. Friends will mock you and say bad things about you. But all that really matters is God’s opinion of you. One thing the Lord has been teaching me is to do what I know is right no matter what others think

Christ is the only place we can stand. Difficulties will come—trials that blow our life out of the water and cause us to ask, “why, God?” It is so freeing to realize that if Jesus is my Lord and Savior, and I am surrendered to Him, nothing can to me without going through Him first. Christ is our shield and stronghold—a metaphor often used by David and other writers of the Psalms. “The Lord is the strength of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?”5 We must fear and worship God, not man. Trials give us an opportunity…a choice: To turn to God or away from God. To build good character or bad character. To be transformed into Christ’s likeness or to become bitter and angry. Jesus is waiting with outstretched arms. He suffers with us. He feels our pain. He understands. And He cares. “No one whose hope is in You will ever be put to shame.”6 I’m learning to hang onto that truth, to believe God is who He says He is—all wise and all good. The words of the hymn In Christ Alone have been a great encouragement to me. Truly, Christ truly is the only sure foundation—the only one we can stand in and trust with our all.

In Christ alone my hope is found

He is my light, my strength, my song

This Cornerstone, this solid ground

Firm through the fiercest drought and storm

What heights of love, what depths of peace

When fears are stilled, when strivings cease

My Comforter, my All in All

Here in the love of Christ I stand

No guilt in life, no fear in death

This is the power of Christ in me

From life’s first cry to final breath

Jesus commands my destiny

No power of hell, no scheme of man

Can ever pluck me from His hand

‘Till He returns or calls me home

Here in the power of Christ I’ll stand 7

Stand! Keep climbing! Through the power and love of Christ, you can conquer even the biggest mountain. And don’t forget the big picture—the view from the top. The end will be better than the beginning. It will be worth it all when we see Jesus!

Notes: 1Matt. 10:31. 2John 16:33 . 3 1 John 4:4. 41 Cor. 13:12. 5Ps. 27:1. 6Ps. 25:3. 7“In Christ Alone” by Keith Getty & Stuart Townend, Kingsway Thankyou Music. All references niv.


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